OK..Yes.. I’m definitely harping on the adult play focus. I must be telling myself something by getting a similar message out twice in a row on the blog. Its winter….It’s cold here…people spend a lot of time indoors so why not be creative and transformational as well.
A healthy marriage really does require adult playtime. Here are some ice-breaking actions you can take right now to move toward a more intimate marriage you both can look forward to—even if you feel like you’ve tried before and nothing ever works.
Explore secret memories. Marriages get stale when you stop exploring. To kick start new exploration, share an intimate memory of when your relationship was new. Talk about your first date. The first time you made love. Mention private things that turned you on. This is your secret history. It represents your history of love and passion that is shared exclusively by the two of you. It confirms you two were passionate and you can be again!
Experiment Time for Couples. Life is an experiment and marriage is no exception. Try meeting at a new place neither of you have been before. Bring surprises. Create ambiance. Any place can become your private lab for fun, communication and intimacy.
This is time well spent so follow through can be mutually rewarding.
So go ahead you two……… Join together in some creative new adventures!
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