When was the last time you thought about those dreamy and steamy times when you first met. They are your archives your own private treasure trove of real intimate memories. Let’s take this a bit further. Remember your intimate times…… the first deep kiss, touching each other in private ways. The first time you made steamy, hot, passionate love. It was like being drunk with passion for each other and you couldn’t wait for the opportunity to do it again.
If these are uncomfortable memories for you my sincerest apologies. I’m talking to those of you who had really hot lusty experiences in the early part of your relationship, where you couldn’t wait to be with each other in private. Remember how you looked at each other. How you craved to be naked and close. After love making can you remember the relief of tension and feelings of bliss you shared together.
Well these early intimate moments are forever in your personal data banks. They are your private special memories and feelings. They were so incredibly good you can actually feel them right now as you are reading this.
When did it all stop and why? Was it children? Life responsibilities? Stress? Changing bodies?
Some of you can use this material to get back some of those early intimate interactions….all you have to do is close your eyes and back you go. Look I know it s hard to recreate the lust and passion of old but see what you can do to improvise and do something with each other to bring forward some mutual sexual passion you both can act on.
Intimate memories are what we have to help us get back in touch with our sensual selves for those of us in the long haul marriage. Go back their together when you are in private and alone and retell them to each other. These are better than photographs and movies as they belong only to the two of you who shared them.
Hope this has helped you recapture a bit of what the two of you are capable of generating and that you will use them to stimulate new intimate interludes in your marriage. If the parts still work and for most of us they do, all you need are two willing consensual partners and steamy lusty times can live again.
Encourage and look forward to your comments.
Please check out my new TV show “Recharge Your Marriage” available in June on the TV in the Washington Metro Area and on the net.
ZEV
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