by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Communication, Fighting, Uncategorized
After counseling couples for over 23 years and this being my 60th birthday I’m in a reflective mood. So I have seen that when we agree to marriage we agree to some conflict. Somewhere in our minds we know we’ve heard this isn’t all hot sex and whispering sweet...
by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Intimacy, Uncategorized
Things getting a bit boring between you two..Well here’s some ways to Relight the Fire and heat things up a bit You Two have to talk to eachother to clear the air and get things back on track… So Have the conversation and start in a place that make sense to both of...
by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Fighting, Uncategorized
Negative communication isn’t just disappointing it’s damaging to your relationship and relationships You might not recognize that damage in the heat of argument but your 24hr/7day week on board Brain definitely does. If you’re arguing yelling and fighting constantly...
by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Intimacy, Uncategorized
OK..Yes.. I’m definitely harping on the adult play focus. I must be telling myself something by getting a similar message out twice in a row on the blog. Its winter….It’s cold here…people spend a lot of time indoors so why not be creative and transformational as...
by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Meeting Needs, Uncategorized
Same old same old. Same crap different day. As a couples therapist I have witnessed couples who are stuck in a highly developed Status Quo with the dials set on very unhappy. You can think of it as your Relationship Status Quo (RSQ). Your RSQ can be favorable or...
by Zev Halpern | Feb 4, 2015 | Intimacy, Uncategorized
We fall in love and we make love challenging us to sustain our love so we can continue making love. Sustaining love is in fulfilling our partners’ needs as best we can. The manner in which we conduct our marriage relates directly to the potential for a marriage filled...
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