If you’re a lucky person traveling through this life of ours, you’ve experienced what it’s like to call a person not a place home. It’s through this person that we are able to be ourselves good and not so good including looking our best and looking our worst. When we’re strong we help lift our home and when we’re weak or face the inevitable challenges of life on the planet we seek shelter at home. [Read more…]
Life and married life have a way of dripping one day… month….. year into another. What happens without at least a little expectations management can often turn out like the finger-paint picture we did as children. The pictures were fabulous with lovely lines and brilliant colors going round and round and all over the place. They were masterpieces. [Read more…]
Let’s talk about self soothing and soothing our spouses for a moment. Have you ever heard anything bad about soothing. For example, ” it was just awful the way She/he soothed me. It just made me feel so damn good”. ” Honey, I wish you wouldn’t soothe me like that it make me feel so good”.. No I think we need lots of person to person soothing behavior in this world.