Automatic Pilot Marriage

Is your marriage on automatic pilot? Is your life on auto pilot? You move through the hours, days, months and years without really seeing what’s really going on. You get to where you’re going…….. you arrive at your destinations but what about the journey you took to...

Someone to Call Home

If you’re a lucky person traveling through this life of ours, you’ve experienced what it’s like to call a person not a place home. It’s through this person that we are able to be ourselves good and not so good including looking our best and looking our worst. When...

Managing Marital Expectations

Life and married life have a way of dripping one day… month….. year into another. What happens without at least a little expectations management can often turn out like the finger-paint picture we did as children. The pictures were fabulous with lovely lines and...

Do it With Me Not Just for Me

Some of us do a lot of things for our spouses. They ask us or they want us to do these things for many reasons. We do them because we care or feel obligated or both. There is however so many things our partners want us to do with them together and not just for them....