Someone to Call Home

If you’re a lucky person traveling through this life of ours, you’ve experienced what it’s like to call a person not a place home. It’s through this person that we are able to be ourselves good and not so good including looking our best and looking our worst. When...

Managing Marital Expectations

Life and married life have a way of dripping one day… month….. year into another. What happens without at least a little expectations management can often turn out like the finger-paint picture we did as children. The pictures were fabulous with lovely lines and...

Self-Soothe and Soothe Your Spouse

Let’s talk about self soothing and soothing our spouses for a moment. Have you ever heard anything bad about soothing. For example, ” it was just awful the way She/he soothed me. It just made me feel so damn good”. ” Honey, I wish you wouldn’t soothe me like that it...

Start A Fire in Your Marriage

What’s the one thing we know about fire? It can spread from a small spark to a huge event. So encouraging you to re-light the fire in your marriage by taking some small steps and get your mind off the end game. In marriages with little romance couples try to much or...

Do it With Me Not Just for Me

Some of us do a lot of things for our spouses. They ask us or they want us to do these things for many reasons. We do them because we care or feel obligated or both. There is however so many things our partners want us to do with them together and not just for them....